Sunday 15 April 2012

The Bond That Was Never-To-Be..



  You know, when you've grown old enough to experience relationships and stuff like that, it really does suck knowing that there would be the consequences of bondage behind those portrayed smiles. And behind those bonds still, lie a handful of hardships and tears to blend in with, a couple of falls and do throw in a few misunderstandings as well. There you have it, a cocktail of a homo-sapiens' life.




  Taking into account of all those bonds, each of them yielding a story relishing on the hopes, dreams and wishes of all human beings alike. Each of them brings out a perspective of their own, and like most of them which succeed in preserving those bonds, there were also some that were never meant to be. Be or not be it, it all lies within destiny itself and also the fragile characteristics of the human mind. The survival of a bond entrusts itself to the understanding capability and the pure-hearted human mind. Sadly to say, not many of us posses that kind of power.



  When things start to take it's toll, that's where the meltdown fits into nature. Those so-called, bonds that were never meant to be, well, they each have a story to tell. Many of them linger around love relationships, where they finally succumb to under pressure and misunderstandings. On recent evidence of the life surrounding mii, one matter of this starts to show through the cracks of this weak-minded society. It's like one party misunderstands the other party, ending up both parties losing and cancelling each other out. A broken bond may also be due to disagreements between two parties. So what? Almost every living being disagrees with each other, it's only us HUMANS that have the upper-hand to think things through and to put things back in order.

  There was never such a thing as breaking a bond due to being 'too different' from each other. Where is all that tolerance? That understanding? That acceptingness? A change is required, no one is to be blamed, and there really is no harm in taking one step back. Accept those you love for what they are, and try to understand how they feel. Cause you'll never know, when you'll feel the same way too...




  To mark an agreement, there are really some things that cannot be resolved unless one party gives way, taking a step backwards. And there are also some that are so very hurtful that resolving was never a necessary issue. Still then, if there were to be a pill or medication for solving everything, I bet that would be one hell of a sale. Friendships and love matters, they are all so delicate, all so important, yet they could be terrifying at the same time. Every bond created in nature could yet yield tears, anger, joy and laughter. There will never be an end to any bond unless we think it is. Materialized and controlled by our own thoughts, we tend to generate wrong thoughts of our loved ones, causing misunderstanding and damage to both sides in the end. Is that even necessary when we could be connected to almost everyone in the world?





  There is no such thing as giving up on a bond for no definite reason. Some people had been together for so long now, and yet they are and will be still together. Losing hope is one thing, losing faith is yet another, but once a bond is broken, there would be nothing else to cling upon to. Misunderstandings must be solved, characters must be changed, but the love for each other, whether as friends, families or lovers, well that should persist, eternally!





''It's tough when someone you care ignores you, but it's even tougher to pretend that you don't mind''


Signing off:
Nickel Low C.J.

1 comment:

  1. So long still ask ppl to read.. it's the same as what you always said le... haiz~ i read until dozed off~~ paiseh :D But thanks anyway.... Muacckk! (*vomit)

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